Wednesday, August 15, 2007

lessons learned

after receiving our assessment results..esp law paper..all of us is like so tensed and stress out...everyday study study study..but i ve decided to relax a bit today.. as i'm a marathon runner rather than a sprinter.i cant pecut all the way and in d end, cant even finish the race..i will go straight into the point ...after reading my best friend and bro-in-christ's blog only i realised that his grandma juz pass away few days ago...his situation actually brings back memories to me and also reflect the situation i'm facing few months ago..both of us fail to see our loved ones for the last time before they pass away...As for my situation, my uncle had ask me whether i wan to follow him back to muar as my ahkong is admitted into the hospital again,as i dont wan to skip my class,i procrastinated and decided to go back the next day..as a result,i dont even get to see my ahkong for the one last time at the very last few moments...So,it's important that we don't take situations and people for granted as we wont be able to know what will and is going to happen next....If u feel like meeting or talking to someone, do it immediately, dun wait!!
Through real life experience recently.. i've also learned that treat and accept ur friends as who they really are and not treating and changing them according to ur likings... as this is what makes them who they are!

2 comments:

Matt said...

this is the 1st time i am giving u comment on ur blog...1st of all i can tell u that this blog is very touching n i really understand hoe u feel(in some way)...n i am not joking...is the truth...i am certainly agree wiyh wt u have mention in ur blog that is we should not that ppl for granted...besides i also agree that we should not change ppl to a person that we like...we should let them be themself...cause if we force someone to change when they dun 1 to it will make both parties to suffer...

arieL said...

yeah I agree with you....enjoy the moments we have now and dont take things for granted....people are v. fragile, one minute they're here the next minute they are gone...thanks for encouraging me this weekend, if only I had read this before I went on my trip to Kedah...I shud hv learnt to appreciate all that happened